Daily Prayer: Boasting in the Lord, Not in the Mirror Photo by Unsplash on Unsplash "But, "Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord." For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends." — 2 Corinthians 10:17-18 I caught myself rehearsing a compliment this morning. Not receiving one — rehearsing one. Someone had said something nice about a project I'd finished at work, and there I was, standing at the kitchen counter with my coffee, mentally polishing the retelling for later. Deciding which details to include. Practicing the right amount of humble in my voice. It's such a small, human thing to do. But I noticed it, and I couldn't un-notice it. The Subtle Art of Self-Promotion I don't think of myself as someone who brags. Honestly, I lean more toward the "deflect and redirect" school of compliment-receiving. But there's a version of self-promotion that doesn't l...

The Month I Stopped Ignoring October and Watched My Bookings Fill Up Photo by Unsplash on Unsplash I used to treat October like a holding pattern — a gap between summer guests and the holiday rush. The property looked fine. Nothing was wrong, exactly. It just looked the same in October as it did in July, and I think that was the problem. The first time I made a deliberate effort to dress the space for fall, I had three inquiries in one week from people specifically mentioning the photos. One guest said she booked because it looked "cozy and like autumn actually lives there." That stuck with me. She wasn't looking for a neutral, ready-for-anything rental. She wanted to feel the season before she even arrived. I'm not talking about anything elaborate. What I changed was small: a wreath on the door, some deeper-toned textiles on the couch, a candle or two, and a few pieces of wall art that leaned into that warm, harvest-time feeling. The art is what...

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When Someone Finally Asks "What's the Oldest Story in Your Family?" | A Neighborly Tip Photo by Unsplash on Unsplash I noticed something at a neighbor's kitchen table last fall. She had invited six of us over, told us to bring one story — not a fact about ourselves, not a fun hobby, but an actual story — and by the second telling, something in the room had shifted. A man who had lived two doors down from me for three years turned out to have once driven a school bus through a monsoon in the Philippines. I had never thought to ask him anything beyond "how's the yard coming along." There's something about a prompt that specific — bring a story — that gets past the surface faster than a dozen potluck dinners ever could. I think what makes storytelling events work, when they really work, is that they level the room in a way that credentials and small talk simply don't. Nobody needs to be the most articulate person there. A grandmother ...

What's For Dinner: Egg Bake The air outside has that crisp edge to it, doesn't it? I noticed the sumac turning bright red on my walk yesterday, and the leaves are really starting to gather in little drifts along the curb. October always feels like a gentle invitation to slow down, to pull out the cozier sweaters, and to think about warm, easy meals that don't ask too much of you after a long day. For someone like me, who sometimes finds the whole "what's for dinner" question a bit overwhelming, having a reliable, simple meal in my back pocket is a true comfort. It’s like finding a favorite old book on a rainy afternoon – familiar, dependable, and always just what you needed. That’s where the egg bake comes in. It’s not fancy, it’s not complicated, but it reliably fills the kitchen with a good smell and stomachs with something wholesome. I find a quiet joy in making something good out of what's already here. It feels a bit like a small act of...

Daily Prayer: Whose Approval Am I Actually After? Photo by Unsplash on Unsplash "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." — Galatians 1:10 I caught myself re-reading an email I'd already sent three times yesterday. Not to check for typos. Just to wonder how it landed. Whether the tone was right. Whether my boss thought I'd been too direct, or not direct enough. The email was fine. It was a completely ordinary work email. And yet there I was, rotating it in my mind like a rock tumbler. I don't think I'm alone in this. The Quiet Audit There's a particular kind of mental energy that gets spent — not on doing things, but on imagining how the doing is being received. I notice it at work. I notice it in conversations with my daughter, now grown, where I'll replay something I said and wonder if I came...