Wishing for Their Presence, Without Ever Issuing a Summons Photo by Annie Spratt (@anniespratt) You know that feeling, don't you? It’s not about needing someone to *do* something for you, not exactly. It’s more about... simply wanting them *to be there*. To genuinely choose to be present, to contribute, to connect, without you having to prompt, prod, or, heaven forbid, demand it. It feels like such a quiet, almost embarrassing ache sometimes. This desire for uncommanded engagement. In my mind, I picture a warm kitchen on a lazy afternoon, the hum of natural conversation, laughter that just happens. Not a meticulously coordinated agenda, but a natural, easy flow. The Delicate Balance As a wife, a mom to an adult child, and someone navigating the ebb and flow of a career, I encounter this tension almost daily. There’s the parent in me, still learning to step back, to offer an open door instead of a directive. My son is grown, forging his own path, and my role has shif...