The Shy Person's Case for Handing a Stranger a Trowel | A Neighborly Tip
The Shy Person's Case for Handing a Stranger a Trowel | A Neighborly Tip Photo by Ruben Mavarez (@justalifein) I noticed something a few summers ago when my neighbor Carol spread a tarp across her driveway and set out six small pots of tomato seedlings. She hadn't announced anything grand — just taped a handwritten index card to her mailbox that said "Saturday, 10am, bring gloves if you have them." By 10:15, there were nine of us standing around that tarp in various degrees of knowing what we were doing. A retired teacher. A college student home for the summer. Me, holding a trowel like it was a foreign object. What I remember most isn't what Carol said about root depth or drainage. It's that nobody was on their phone, and everyone was looking at the same small thing. I think that's the quiet genius of a gardening workshop — not that people leave knowing more, but that they leave having been somewhere together. There's something about wo...