The Myth of Work-Life Balance (And Why I'm Okay With My Version)
The Myth of Work-Life Balance (And Why I'm Okay With My Version) Photo by Unsplash on Unsplash I used to think I was just bad at it. Balance, I mean. Everyone around me seemed to have this invisible system — color-coded calendars, firm boundaries, a tidy little separation between "work hours" and "life hours." And there I was, answering emails at 9 p.m. while simultaneously texting my daughter about whether she'd eaten dinner and mentally running through tomorrow's to-do list like a ticker tape I couldn't turn off. I kept waiting to arrive at balance. Like it was a destination with a welcome sign and a parking lot. It took me longer than I'd like to admit to realize: that sign doesn't exist. At least not the way I was imagining it. The Version Nobody Talks About What I actually have is more like a slow, ongoing negotiation. Some weeks, work gets the bigger share. Some weeks, family does. There have been seasons — and...