In the Middle of Everything: Caring for Parents While Parenting a College Kid
In the Middle of Everything: Caring for Parents While Parenting a College Kid Photo by Ronald Vargas (@ronaldvargaz) Okay, deep breath. It's May. The magnolias in my neighborhood are just starting to really bloom, painting the street in soft pinks and whites. Part of me wants to just sit and stare at them all day, soaking in the quiet beauty. Another part is mentally juggling college tuition statements, doctor's appointments for Mom, and a text from my daughter asking if I can Venmo her for "emergency coffee supplies" (a.k.a. her lifeblood for finals week). This "sandwich generation" thing? It’s less like a cozy lunch and more like a high-wire act where the wind keeps picking up. One minute I'm on the phone trying to understand Medicare changes for my parents, the next I'm listening to my independent, almost-grown daughter navigate a challenging roommate situation or a tricky class project. My heart is in two places, and honestly...